Safety center
Meet people. Stay in control.
Every profile comes with context from people who know them. Here's what's built into Wingset, how to look after yourself before and after you meet, and where to turn if something goes wrong.
Built in
What Wingset does for you.
Wingset is in early development, so tools marked “Coming next” are still being built.
See who vouches for them
Every answer from a friend shows who wrote it and how they know the person.
Selfie check
A quick live selfie confirms someone matches their photos.
Share your plan
Send a friend the time and place of your date in two taps.
Block and report
Always one tap away.
Look after yourself
Dating safely, before and after you meet.
Getting to know someone
Take it slow
Chat in the app first, and try a quick video call before you meet. It's the easiest way to know someone is who they say.
Guard your details
Keep your address, workplace and daily routine private until you really trust someone.
Never send money
Anyone who asks for money, gift cards or crypto is a red flag, whatever the story. Block and report them.
Meeting in person
Meet in public
Pick a busy café, bar or park for the first few dates. Never a home.
Tell a friend
Share who you're meeting, where and when, and check in afterwards.
Get yourself there and back
Keep control of your own ride, and your own drinks, so you can leave whenever you like.
Consent and boundaries
Yes can become no
Consent is ongoing. Anyone can change their mind at any time, and everyone should check in.
Trust your gut
If something feels off, it's fine to end the date early. You don't owe anyone an explanation.
Look after your health
If things get physical, talk about protection and testing first.
If something goes wrong
You're not on your own.
- If you're in danger, call your local emergency number straight away (911 in the US).
- Block the person, so they can't see your profile or contact you again.
- Report them. Reports are private: the person won't know it was you.
Confidential help lines in the US
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
Call 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788
- National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN)
Call 800-656-4673 or text HOPE to 64673
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988
Outside the US, your local emergency number and support services can help.
Everyone agrees to the House rules.
Five rules that keep Wingset kind, honest and safe.